The 8 Best Online Dating Apps for Relationships

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One of the most interesting ways to spark a conversation with a couple is to ask how they met. Maybe they were introduced at work, or perhaps they were set up by friends. Some could be high school sweethearts, and others could’ve said hello at a bar. But more and more often, the answer is online. There are a ton of apps out there, and filtering out the best dating apps for relationships can be tough.

So, if you’re looking for long-term love and you’ve exhausted your social circles, consider online dating as a place to meet and find that special someone. To help you navigate digital territory and figure out which are the best dating apps for relationships, we consulted a dating pro.

Online Dating Tips

“So many singles have a fast-food mentality when it comes to finding a partner online,” says Carmelia Ray, an online dating coach and celebrity matchmaker. “People should have realistic expectations and a realistic timeline to find their future partner. Unfortunately, apps like Tinder created the swiping phenomenon and the false hope you can meet a great match instantly through the so-called hook-up culture.”

Meet the Expert

Carmelia Ray is an internationally acclaimed matchmaker for high achieving men and the quality women they’re searching for. She’s also a renowned TV personality from Mom Vs. MatchmakerThe Real Housewives Of Toronto and A User’s Guide to Cheating Death.

In order to use online dating as a way to find long-term love, Ray says it’s important for your profile to reflect that. Your photos should be recent (within the last six months) and of you only—no group shots. When writing about yourself, be positive, welcoming, and creative. “Your profile bio should read like the start of an interesting novel you can’t put down,” Ray continues. “Be willing to share your life and personality traits in a story form.”

And as for things you shouldn’t do, Ray has some insights as well. Don’t complain about online dating or be at all negative in your profile. You should also shy away from listing the types of people or activities you’re not interested in, instead sharing what you’re looking for to build a bond. Lastly, Ray emphasizes that overexposed selfies are a no-no.

Once your dating profile is in top shape, it’s time to put yourself out there. We asked Ray to share the eight best dating apps for relationships she’d recommend to singles who are ready for commitment.

The League

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“This app is best for professional, educated singles between 25 and 40 who want to date someone in their professional and educational league,” says Ray. Pro tip: Check out League groups to meet singles in real life.

Happn

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According to Ray, this app is great for connecting with singles with whom you frequently cross paths in life. “You can view profiles of singles who travel where you go and also view mutual interests, " Ray says. "Never walk by your perfect partner again!”

Coffee Meets Bagel

Coffee Meets Bagel
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Quality over quantity is the name of the game with this app. "It serves you a limited number of profiles based on common interests so you never feel overwhelmed with swiping,” Ray notes.

Luxy

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Luxy is the app for elite singles and verified millionaires looking for love.“The Luxy dating experience is highly personalized since it’s made up of selective singles who enjoy similar lifestyles," Ray says.

Zoosk

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“Zoosk uses ‘behavioral matchmaking’ technology to recommend the best matches for long-term relationships,” Ray says. “Plus, Zoosk uses unique photo verification to ensure there are zero surprises when you meet in real life." Given there are over three million messages sent daily and 40 million members, you’re bound to meet someone you'll click with.

WooYou

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Sick of swiping? Download WooYou. “This app [is] based in Toronto [and] works to make a quality match,” Ray explains. “Instead of swiping through profiles, you can match based on common interests and activities to ‘woo’ your perfect partner.”

Match

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“Match is one of the most widely recognized and trusted dating app for singles,” Ray continues. “It has been responsible for thousands of marriages over the last two decades." You can even share video stories to let someone know you are the real deal, or attend a Match-sponsored live event to meet other singles in real life who share common interests.

OurTime

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If you're looking for love over 50, OurTime is your best bet. “Discover others who believe that swiping is not the answer to making a love connection," Ray says.

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