10 Sexy Date Ideas to Take Your Love Life to the Next Level

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If you're in a long term relationship looking to fuel the fires of desire with your partner, or in need of creative ways to seduce your lover tonight, these sexy date ideas are meant to inspire and steam things up. Use these slides as a starting point, and make sure to cater the evening to each of your preferences and styles.

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Take a Bath Together

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A luxurious bath with your sweetie, complete with candles and sexy music is a great stage for seduction. You can go all out with champagne and bubbles or take the sensory high road with a bath bomb. Need a few ideas? Try these 10 Steps to Create the Perfect Bath. Or, try a pre-packed bath gift to create a memorable, sensual date night with a minimum of fuss. 

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Share a Sensual Picnic

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A basic seduction how-to would be remiss if it didn't include eating some sort of sensual foodstuffs off your partners' body. Take this seductive dating idea to the next level with a picnic, edible flowers and chocolate covered strawberries for a not-to-be-forgotten event. 

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Aphrodisiac Buffet

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Make tonight's date a taste adventure by trying out a variety of aphrodisiacs with your partner. They could be things that are well known for their seductive properties, like oysters, or more sensual in nature, like chocolate fondue.

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Perform a Striptease

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Take a cue from the heightened interest in burlesque these days and try to give your loved one something they will never forget—a personalized striptease just for them. You can find the sexiest underwear in your drawer or treat yourself to something new from the lingerie department of your favorite clothing store.

For the most dedicated seductress, there are costume companies that may offer rentals for certain garments. 

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Give a Massage

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There are few things more relaxing and seductive than a skin to skin massage. Try using a warmed massage stone for an added, unusual twist, or purchase some massage bars for delightful additions.

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Take a Vacation

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Seduction doesn't always have to happen at home. In fact, it may add to the mystique if you plan something sexy for the two of you to enjoy elsewhere. It can be as simple as an hour-long spa treatment for the two of you to enjoy, or something as complex as a two-week long vacation to the tropics. As long as you are traveling together and contributing to your relationship's allure, it is a vacation worth taking. 

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Send Sexy Messages

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They are unexpected, inexpensive and unusual, so a seductive message might just add some icing to a sexy date request. Spend some time planning several hours worth of messages through your cell phone company, perhaps by time stamping a couple ahead of time. The possibilities are only as fixed as your imagination—so why not prepare a text-based scavenger hunt where the end result is one of these recommended date ideas? 

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Car Talk

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For teenagers, the only place for privacy is their car. It is a compact and intimate space that feels cut off from the rest of the world—in the best way. Relive this excitement and close rapport in your current relationship by taking a drive to a scenic destination and putting your vehicle in park. You won't need to open the doors to have a wonderful time together; you could take a bar of soap and write sexy messages on the side windows of your car before leaving, so that when the two of you heat up the vehicle your notes will be displayed. 

For any particularly steamy activities, remember that public indecency is illegal, and that includes any acts performed in a car parked in a public place. 

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Read Erotica Together

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Erotica is powerful and can be used in a variety of ways to seduce your partner. You may find some on the internet, purchase a book online, or write your own. Go for something you know your partner will like, or get a bit risqué and try an idea out that the two of you have never explored before. 

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Play a Sexy Couples Game

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Create your own seductive game to play with one another, or purchase sexy board games for couples that guide you in the right direction. When you inject a bit of fun and levity into your seductive date, you'll both benefit from the intimate connection and memorable moments.

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